Shelter from L-

These are words These are words about the words that I will not say I will not repeat them to myself- and I dare not tell them to you. Though these words have been written and threatened Escaped the recycled bin, Only to land in folder under the wrong title, They have reigned in my... Continue Reading →


Gratitude Diary

After the ‘hormonous’ postpublished yesterday I thought to do something different inspired by a conversation with a colleague in a matatu yesterday. She mentioned that we (she and I) are lucky to have jobs because some friends she graduated with two years ago don’t have any. I can’t promise to do it daily but I... Continue Reading →

For real though? Sijiskii.

So there goes my plan to work from home… the kitchen is being renovated and when I left this morning it was but an empty shell, kinda like something you’d see as the aftermath of intensive gun fire in a war film. I have this friend, shrink, brother in Christ… can’t quite figure out what... Continue Reading →

They call me girlie…

Well said Kimola, well said.

Clarity Central

 Yes, I love make-up

“You’re so girlie”

I looked up at the two ladies addressing the lady in front of me in surprise as she proceeded with an “Oh really”.

“Yeah, you are.”

I put my phone aside, ready to hear what made her so “girlie” because the word is usually used with a negative connotation. One of the ladies proceeded to point out what made the beautifully dressed lady girlie. “Your earrings, your necklace and bangles, your manicured nails, oh, and your make up too.”

“Oh, these make me girlie?” she asked with a smile.

“Yeah, plus your lipstick – the lipstick definitely points you in that direction.”

“And your clothes…and the way you put bow accessories on your hair nowadays.” The other one added matter of factually.

“Hmm, I never noticed.” The lady was clearly trying to be as nice as she could, because she said it whilst trying to smile…

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19 Struggles Of Having An Outgoing Personality But Actually Being Introverted

Totally gets it 🙂

Introversion Effect

Like many categorizing systems, the separatist thinking behind them attempts to firmly place us in one container or another.  The flaw in these types of systems is that they don’t always take into account the middle areas of the spectrum.  And any system is just that: a spectrum.  I’ve long stated with unequivocal certainty that I’m introverted.  My friends, however, look at me askance, because I’m actually very fun-loving and outgoing when I need to be.  So on that introvert/extravert spectrum, I fall somewhere to the introverted side, but exhibit limited extroverted tendencies.  Here is an article found online that I have updated to reflect this spectrumized system.

1. You’re not anti-social, you’re selectively social.

2. At any given point, you have one (maybe two) best friends who are your entire life. You’re not a “group of friends” person. You can’t keep up with all that.

3. Social gatherings…

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