On why adults should play…

The Kenyan system killed our creativity. Why art, music and physical fitness were scrapped off is beyond me. We were forced to be adults at age 5. I cannot grasp how I see more than 5 school buses during my 20 minute jog- where are you taking children at 5:00 am??

We are creators, and this is as fact, as fact as the fact that the sun does not rise from the East. We are creators because we were created. The very fact that you cook or pair clothes together makes you a creative at the very least! Fine, not everyone is in that field, but we all have creativity in us.

Creativity cannot be lost, only buried and block, and this excavation is done through forgiveness and play. Forgive whomever you are still blaming for not living a colorful life, then go out and do those things that they’ stopped’ you from doing that you wanted to do. Take a drawing class, go take up a hobby as random as glass making because your heart feels some type of way every time you’ve seen a clip where glass is glowing.  Take walks because all those shades of green and bricks fascinate you.

Play.

I have coloring book apps that help me with mindfulness. You can read all about it here though in summary, it helps you relax and as been known to be effective therapy for people with depression and PTSD. Your mind basically quietens, and something about colors makes it hard for your mind to habor negative thoughts. I’ve found that I am able to piece things together when I am in this state of mindfulness. Your conscious mind shuts up and lets your undervalued companion, the subconscious mind, to work.

I asked a friend in a group of three whether she knew any great coloring ups, and our friend told me, when I explained mindfulness, “most people mediate but coloring books work outside kindergarten too”. Silence was palpable after I share the article. Ha!

Maureen, chill, what’s ‘mindfulnes’? Is it like minding your own business?

Google says it’s:

  1. the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something.
  2. a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique.

So next time someone tells you to grow up, kindly point out how NOT well being grown has served them. If watching series and movies, drinking, sleeping etc. has not been working for you, change your play. Plan a trip, go on a nature trail, color, take up a random hobby, do kiddie stuff with your kids, do a racing games.

Play.

Even Shonda Rhimes does it.

Wanna know more? Here are some other ways to practice mindfulness.

 

Cheers my players.

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